Confidence & Identity Rhea Mhae Villena Confidence & Identity Rhea Mhae Villena

Coaching Yourself: Using Reflection Instead of Rumination

It's 11 p.m. and you're replaying the fourth quarter for the hundredth time. You're not watching film—you're just spinning. That's rumination, and it feels productive but it's not. Reflection asks questions and looks for lessons. Rumination makes harsh statements and looks for blame. Here's how to coach yourself with clarity and direction instead of getting stuck in the mental loop that steals your energy and confidence.

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